Two scenarios were seen during the trip
a beautiful and well-fed child. She gives him the pacifier, still not looking. I stand too close and I can’t help but follow this part, so I find an empty seat and run away trying to forget what I know about the importance of bonding with your little baby. The ride continues, and since nothing is changing between them, I decided to try to talk to the women.
You have a beautiful son!
Mom smiles and continues
Do you know that it is very important for a child to talk to him and make eye contact? His mental development and his ability to communicate and understand what is going on between people depends on this
He didn’t get angry or angry with me for saying this and thanked me even though I told him.
I hope that he will remember the lesson because the child did not seem to develop words from scratch as a basis for his future language skills. In Denmark, we still have health visitors teaching these things in family homes. In Sweden, where I saw this, parents go to Health Clinics sometimes. It is easier to assume the role of a good mother in the hospital than to see at home.
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2. Another part. We stayed with a family with two small children. I don’t know why but mom seems to be of two minds. One is on, and the other is off. That was before she had any more children. when the off button lights up, i feel empty inside. There seems to be nothing to say or do about it when you are a visiting family member.
Just wait and then the lady will be active and active. The children only eat a little because as soon as they object to the food, they are removed from the table. One day the little girl went a whole day without eating anything. When the man got home after working all day, he was very tired and was screaming because he wanted to go eat a hamburger. I told him that he must be hungry and needed a proper meal right away. I am happy to say that afterwards he ate and felt better. The two brothers don’t talk much when they play, and I don’t really feel like they speak sentences.
When the woman was happy, she spoke to them and they were able to answer.
It is difficult to witness such miscommunication between a mother and her children without discussing the consequences.
I grew up with a father who hated our company when I was a child. After he died 11 years ago, I wrote about my friendship with him and it has helped me to see him clearly. As a teenager, I developed anxiety and struggled to express myself freely in groups or at school. To this day, I still find it difficult to deal with conflicts that arise between family members or other people.
To be able to deal with a parent whom the children know is unreachable, they will learn that they are left alone in the situation and must take care of themselves or, if possible, ask for help from other people or a company. Depression is high and is expressed in them being quiet or restless. A manipulative person will grow up where the child will act on what is expected. It will take years of support, unfortunately.
To be a good parent, you must be willing to put aside your own needs and desires for the benefit of the child.